Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Thursday, July 18, 2013

Double blessings and Second Chances


God knows the person meant for you. 

One who will love you through thick and thin. 

One who will be your best friend and  your strongest critic.

One who will be your biggest supporter in cheering you on in whatever endeavors you are pursuing. 

I have been blessed twice with such a man who is my high school sweetheart. 

Our relationship has been a lot of valleys and mountain tops yet through it all as Dan shares, we always manage to come back to each other because in our hearts, we never left.

Our double blessings (besides the twins) is that we have two wedding anniversaries! 

Today as I write this is our "first" wedding anniversary.

If we didn't divorce, we would have been married 15 years as of today. But, it is what it is and lessons were learned during that time that brought us to our "second" anniversary, which is on November 19.

Second chances are meant for you to realize what you screwed up on and to become better the second time by knowing what you need and not do to make a marriage (or anything) work. 

Second chances from God is truly meant to honor Him by showing through your thoughts, actions and speech that you will not take advantage or take what He has blessed you with for granted. 

Second chances at marriage is affirming with God that you will honor the vows by honoring Him first and your spouse second.

Second chances is knowing the mercy and grace of my God who knows what / who we need in our lives.

I am double blessed at the second chance God gave to me and Dan and I wouldn't have it any other way. 

Monday, July 8, 2013

Nothing is more important than relationships


Last summer, our family had a family reunion in Las Vegas. Families from Arizona, Washington and Hawaii came together having so much fun that our children who were graduating from high school decided to combine their graduation party together in Hawaii (just so they could see each other again before our next five year reunion)!

Since that time, we've planned from reserving the hall...


the food...



and entertainment...


As you can see, it was a great success with memories that not just the graduates but our entire family will cherish. 

It is the love we have for one another that is vital in keeping the bond intact through the good times and bad.


It is not a requirement. It is not a inconvenience. It is not a "when you feel like it" feeling. 


It is an everyday nurturing that thrives on the ebb and flow of giving and receiving unconditional love.


Our family knows this and it is hard work but in the end, hopefully everyone especially our children will continue the legacy that we leave with them and the upcoming generations that nothing is more important than relationships.


Colossians 3:14, "...And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity..."



Thursday, March 8, 2012

Project TRX: Brand vs Generic

When it comes to women, we have our preferences in products especially if there is a brand or a generic version.

My outlook...why pay for something cheap when you can get the brand that may last longer than the generic?

However, there are certain things that proves my theory wrong... like my husband who will go for the cheaper chicken especially if he finds a way to create things that works just as productive with the same results.

For example, TRX suspension training straps.

Back in January right after I started TRX training, I shared with my husband

"I know what I want for Valentine's Day"

"Yes?"

"TRX suspension straps!"

"Okay" (Note: I'm spoiled--well, I'm LOVED)

Plus, my husband likes to workout...he always managed to maintain a healthy lifestyle ever since he quit smoking and drinking in the mid-90's. Let me brag about Dan :) This is a guy who is 5'9 and weighed in at that time almost 190. Right after New Years Eve, he just decided to quit his pack a day habit and started running and lifting. He also totally revamped his diet and went down to 152 (hmmph).

A year later, he decided to quit drinking...and he wasn't a moderate drinker-he was a heavy drinker that only drank double shots 100% proof vodka with only water to chase it down. Anyhow, just like New Years Eve the previous year, he decided that he was going to quit drinking as well.

That's Dan. Once he makes up his mind. You can't change it....just like his heart set on creating the generic version of TRX straps.

So...being that he is health conscious...he won't refuse his wife who is suddenly into maintaining a healthy lifestyle too and will buy her TRX straps or pay for some boot camp classes :) After all,  he's was always one to remind me gently, "I thought you shared you that you wanted to workout?" -_-

Anyhow, back to TRX straps...Dan was busy looking at youtube videos and shows me videos of people making their own suspension straps. I would give him a sad look and ask him, "You're still buying me the TRX Suspension Straps, yes?" His answer? "Of course"while scheming to see if these actual DIY TRX videos worked.

Fast forward to Martin Luther King, Jr's Day, we had to drop off our son at the beach and we decided to have breakfast THEN go to Total Fitness USA to get my straps *SCORE* but then as I was walking around the store and pointing out, "This is what Megan tortures us with! I mean, this is what Megan HAS US use for workouts!" I notice that he stops at this one section displaying those hook thingies and whatnots that he needs to complete his project.

After purchasing my TRX straps and his gadgets for his DIY project, we pick up our son and head on home.

As soon as we walked through the door, the floor of the living room was strewn with straps, hooks, pipes along with my TRX strap that he used as reference along with the video.

The project...

That's right...you see those hooks...white pipe thingies...and straps that is actually used to hold down things in the back of your truck.

While I am busy oohing and aching over my  TRX box, he's into his project and making sure everything is precise as possible (he's that OCD when it comes to installing floors too) and test it out to make sure it is sturdy....

The final result...


My sons thought it was interesting until he decided to have them try it out....they weren't too happy with that suggestion.

So, as you can see--it was a success for him as well as for me. He made the generic version, while I have the real version. *preening*

His theory and triumph by proving to me that both of these straps will give the same results if we do the workouts correctly.

Another thing that you can look at in regards to this project especially if you have a significant other is the fact that this is something that you both can do as a couple in your very own home gym.

Will this make me stop attending SOHI Fitness? Of course not-that is my time away from home to just focus on me.

Nevertheless, I'm starting to notice that he is getting inspired by those mainland Crossfit videos that he's been watching because now he is aiming to look for those HUGE tires...

I'm just glad he hasn't been inspired by sandbags...yet

Overall lesson of this blog post: This is what happens when you decide to take what you have learned and apply it at home to make sure that maintaining a healthy lifestyle is consistent and that your significant other is secretly a McGyver type of guy.

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

The Importance...

"Relationships are like any other investment–if you don’t invest over the long haul, you’ll never reap any of the rewards long term." ~T. Jackson

Thought for the Day: Nothing is more important than relationships

Friday, September 9, 2011

I have a grandson


And he is so precious to me....

From the first time the news was given to now, my love has grown steadily for this little man.

Unexpected blessings gives unexpected joys that provides you a glimpse of God's love for us.

The overwhelming feeling of first seeing your grandchild catches your breath and brings tears to your eyes because who would have ever fathomed that this love goes over and beyond?

When you give birth to your own child, you already love them especially because you've been carrying them close to your heart for nine months.

But, wow...meeting your grandchild for the first time especially if you were given the privilege of being allowed to witness the birth is simply amazing.

Words cannot describe the moment...

Words cannot describe the first time you get to hold him in your arms...

Prayers are immediately uplifted for the parents to protect and guide them as they raise up their child...YOUR grandchild...

Prayers are immediately lifted for the family on both sides that we all remain strong and in unity as we guide and direct your grandchild's parents...encouraging and assisting in any way possible...

This is what love is all about...this is what overflowing blessings are....

Your grandchild...my grandson...

Kal-El Kali'i Okeakuaka'ulunakanawai Yoro Alvardo